Dear Cubby and Cindy,
I've been preparing to host my first Thanksgiving for the past three weeks, and in that time, I've begged my guests for a proper headcount so that I can make sure there's enough food. Well, now we're a day away from the big day and two of my guests have just told me their each bringing 2 more people, which totally throws everything off. I know it's the holidays and you shouldn't turn anyone away but it's rude that they did this without asking me first. Should I just try to make the food and seating arrangements work or should I tell my guests to uninvite their guests?